TERMS
Deposit
A deposit is required to secure your spot in my schedule. This deposit ensures priority for those with serious intentions. Within the Netherlands and Belgium, as well as many other locations a small train-ride away, this deposit is 20% of the booking fee, plus a travel fee.
Want me to travel farther? Read more about travel below.
Screening
My safety and peace of mind are very important for me. That is why screening is required for first-time lovers.
I'm in the business of privacy, and everything you share will stay between us.
I kindly ask you to send me one of the following:
1. a selfie of you holding your ID or driver's license (feel free to blur out everything besides your full name and year of birth);
2. two references from other providers you have seen;
3. A connection request to my blank LinkedIn profile. (Let me know if you want to do this option, and I'll send the link to the profile. I'll leave the request unaccepted so it doesn't show up publicly).
Payment options
Deposits can be made through a bank or wire transfer, Throne (completely anonymous, though a transfer fee applies), or Stripe (this is a secure payment platform). For shorter dates of a maximum of 4 hours, deposits can also be made with an online gift card of my choosing.
You can also pay the remainder by bank transfer, wire transfer, or Stripe. It's also possible to pay in cash in the first 10 minutes of our encounter. This can be done discreetly with an envelope or small gift bag.
Cancellation policy
I understand that sometimes things come up. Not to worry. If you cancel with more than 72 hours of notice, your deposit can be applied to a future date within 90 days. If it is less than 72 hours of notice, 50% of the deposit is required to ensure a new booking.
For dates lasting 24 hours or more, one week of notice is required.
When I have already bought a train or plane ticket, these fees cannot be refunded and will be added to the next booking fee.
2 hours: 750 euro
3 hours: 1000 euro
4 hours: 1200 euro
5 hours: 1400 euro
6 hours: 1600 euro
7 hours: 1750 euro
8 hours: 1900 euro
12 hours - sleepover: 2400 euro
16 hours - sleepover: 2700 euro
24 hours: 3300 euro
48 hours: 5000 euro
Extra 24 hours: 2000 euro
1 week: 12000 euro
2 weeks: 22000 euro
I believe that many of the more interesting things about a person can only be discovered over time. This is why I value longer dates, and this is reflected in my rates. I also prioritize regulars in my scheduling, and dates that start with quality time in public like lunch or dinner, the theatre or a museum.
3 hours is my preferred minimum duration for a first date, as it allows us more time to connect.
For all dates lasting more than 3 hours, a meal is expected.
I currently offer outcalls only. If you want, I can handle the hotel booking and include the cost in the deposit. I can also give you plenty of recommendations if you need some more inspiration to make our time together unforgettable.
MY RATES
TRAVEL
The duration
For locations in the Netherlands, the minimum duration of a booking is 2 hours. For Belgium the minimum time spent together is 4-6 hours, depending on the city. For many other places in Europe, the minimum duration of a booking ranges from 6 hours to overnight.
For places outside of the Netherlands, a travel fee always applies.
Deposits when traveling
For a date within the Netherlands a deposit of 20% is required. For dates in Belgium and many other places easily accessible by train, a 20% deposit is required plus the added travel costs.
For a FMTY in the EU, a deposit of 50% is required plus for the travel cost to be paid in full in advance. For places outside of the EU, the full booking fee needs to be paid in advance plus travel costs.
I love to travel and you can fly or train me to wherever you are, or we can travel together. Here are some things to keep in mind if you want to plan a FMTY or a "train me to you".
PLANNING
Night-time fun
To ensure we both have the best experience, I take my rest very seriously. That's why my preference lies with dates that start earlier in the evening or during the day. If you do want to plan a "night date" that starts between 22:00 (10 PM) and 08:00 (8 AM), a surcharge of 100 euros applies.
In-date extensions
If I have no prior commitments planned, I would love to spent a little more time together. For in-date extensions, my hourly rate of 250 euros applies. Need just a little more time before letting go? You can extend just half an hour for 150 euros.
Hotel booking
When choosing a hotel or private spa, make sure the room we are going to spent time in is spacious enough for the both of us. To ensure we are both comfortable, a 4-5 star hotel or private spa is recommended.
Want me to handle more of the planning? I would love to. From sending recommendations to planning our whole date together, just let me know if you'd like me to take the reins.
I do not believe in check-lists when it comes to my "services", but in finding our flow together and open ourselves up to a unique experience. What will set us up for success is planning well, so we can let go in the moment and see where it will take us. Here are a few things to keep in mind when planning our encounter:
Longer dates
For an overnight rendez-vous, I require a minimum of 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep. For a date lasting 24 hours or more, 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep is required per night.
Furthermore, for longer dates I will occasionally need some private time to recharge so I can be my very best with you (and I'm sure you will too!). This is included in my rates.
A private room I can retreat to now and again will be very much appreciated, but not required.